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Gods Restoration
Gods Plan
Restoration of Family and Marriages an Relationships in General.

The first thing we must have is a relationship with God.
Because God is going to be the anchor of our relationships and the saviour of our distorted relationships.

A}"Trust in the Lord"
{Prov3:5-6} Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your path straight.
B} "God is always Faithful"
{Lam3:32} Though he brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is this unfailing love.
{Ps37:4} Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart.
{Ps50:15} Call upon me in the day of trouble and I will deliver you and you will honor me.

We have to accept that when we believe, trust and have faith in our God nothing will be to hard or impossible for him.

"Nothing is to hard For God"
{Jer32:17 26:27} Then the word of the Lord came to Jeremiah, I am the Lord the God of all mankind is anything to hard for me?

We also have to accept that the Lord is not only our Saviour who gave his live for us in calvary but He is also the saviour of everything in our life He saved you from death and He will save your whole family as well from falling apart.

"God is able to do more than we ask or imagine"
{Eph3:20} God is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us.
When we depend in God He will do things for us that we didn't even imagine He would do for us, In us you'll begin to see his work and his power. So we must believe, trust, and have faith in our Lord.

"God cares for those who trust him"
{Nahum1:7} The Lord is good a refuge in times of trouble he cares for those who trust him.

We must go to him in times of troubles as well because he cares about us. Trusting that He is there for us, believing that he will lift our burdens. God is our solution and answer. Now that we established that God is our whole existence now we must believe and trust in him that he will restore your relationship the faith that you put in him, you will see the glory and power of God, let me prove that to you!

{1Chron29:11-12} Yours O Lord is the greatness the power and the glory the victory and the majesty for all that is in heaven and the earth is yours yours is kingdom O Lord and you are exalted as head over all. {12} Both riches and honor come from you and you reign over all. In your hand is power and might in your hand it is to make and to give strength to all.

So now we have realized how powerful God is and that all power belongs to him. His word is powerful and is also what we should depend on, the holy spirit will be your comforter to guide you through his power. God says open your heart and let him in and he will restore you and make you new. Trusting him is the key element.

The second thing we must understand is in oder to establish a relationship with others. "God has to restore us first" God dwells inside of each one of us that accepts him in their hearts. We start by recognizing that we need fixing and we do things that offend and don't please Him, and we do the same to others. Therefore we can't judge others we need to know that God loves that other person as well, and that person needs liberation he or she is in flesh in all senses worldly fighting a spiritual battle a war with his own convictions just like you, as his and her spirit screams out for Gods deliverance and mercy on them, Having compassion for others will open the doors for a walk of restoration and God will do his wonders God understands our flesh He never said to reject others for it, instead He says to love one another. God walks us through a new creation loving and accepting one another as yourself.

"Lets take a look"
{1Thess4:9-11} Now about brotherly love we do not need to write to you for you yourselves have been taught by God to love eachother.
{Gal5:13-14} For you, brethren have been called to liberty, only do not use liberty as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another.{14} For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even this You shall love your neighbor as yourself.
If we keep biting and devouring eachother watch out or we will destroy each other, Not accepting eachother causes strife and arguments because we don't accept the differences in each other but God made each one of us unique different and special why can't we love what God has created. God doesn't give up on us and he doesn't turn away from us when we come crawling to him for deliverance why should we give up on others. Lets work with it, you can actually work with that complicated person who needs so much acceptance think about yourself and how much we want to be accepted by others and loved by those whom we have put our trust in lets be selfless and love one another trust in God and you will see the difference.

So now that we have a relationship with God he can begin to restore us , See God needs to dwell in us first he needs to start cleaning out clutter and things we don't need in our hearts. God is liberation and when we give our whole heart to God he will demolish our wordly flesh and there's as well, the flesh is no use for God. What God is trying to do is bring forth a new creation in Christ who will be the foundation of yourself and of your relationships. If you give God a chance to come in your life, He will prove to you that there's nothing to hard for him to tackle and restore. Open your heart and believe in his word and promises

Why don't we start by not blaming others for our inner problems we need to turn to God and cleanse our selves. If others don't change then you change remember it's through you that God wants to first work with, we can't change others but God can change them. When you start to change they will see the difference, you don't have to confirm the change your change will confirm itself. Because God will shine through you so that he may be glorified. Amen
Lets look at a few things that are not God dwelling.
Bitterness Depression
Blame shifting Fornication
Fear Anxiety
Hate Adultery
Hot temper Distrust
Lust Unforgiving
Lying Judging others
Resentments Self Destruction
When we don't have God as our anchor and founder of our relationships we become Fornicators of Bitterness being bitter with others and Blaming each other for insecurities and Fears that we have, which causes Resentments in one another leading us to Lying, and Worrying, that leads to Anxiety, that leads us to Depression. We Distrust others and very often is the cause of failure in our lives. Many relationships suffer from lack of comprehension and that joy that we once felt is no longer there which causes us to look for that understanding in someone else causing us to commit Adultery. Searching for someone to fill a void in us that only God can fill. It often has nothing to do with sex but because we lack the knowlege to sustain that relationship it won't survive it's trials and tribulations and a way out seems so much easier. Then we become too Proud to even accept our faults, we start to develop a Destructive Behaviour that leads no where, but to a distorted relationship. This behaviour seprates us from God and causes us to lose faith in our selves and in Jesus. Seeing a solution seems miles away and we start to doubt God and instead of reaching out to God we start to look for wordly solutions we start to take our eyes away from God and depend on our understanding, Open the door to satan and he will freely come and proclaim destruction on you, your family, your children, your parents, your coworkers, your neighbors, And everything you own and worked hard for, you make a decision either God or Satan. {Prov16:18} Pride goeth before destruction and an haughty spirit before a fall.
This is what happens when we depart from God
{Isa59:1-2} Behold, the Lord's hand is not shortened, that it cannot save. Nor His ear heavy, that it canot hear {2} But your inquities have hidden His face from you so that He will not hear.

How can we ask God to restore our relationships if He doesn't even dwell in all this that's above, see in order for God to come in us we have to understand God.

"Lets Understand God, What Is God In Us"?
Discipline Gentle
Obedience Patient
Changing for his ways Tolerant
Comfort Understanding
Communication Faithful
Contentment Sensitive
Forgiveness Compassionate
Hope Noble
Faith Humble
Serving others Honest
Peace Sacrificing for
Trust In other words Imitating him
See when we have Jesus in us we are all these that is from above;
If you have God in you, Your everything he is, He is the
{Eph4:22-24}You were taught with regard to your former way of life to put your old, which is being corrupted by it's deceitful desires to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put the newself, created to be like God in true rightousness and holiness.
{Col3:9-10} Do not lie to eachother since you've taken off your self with it's practices and have put on the new self which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of it's Creator.
Loving one another is the first step to accepting others like God accepted us when we came to him heavy burdened. And this will be the root to Forgiveness, giving us Hope to restore our relationship with Faith in God through Communication with one another and listening to one another will bring us into an Understanding of eachothers needs. Trusting God and others will bring forth an openess to be Honest with others and this will make us Sensitive to others. We must be Disciplined in these ways and Obedient to Gods plan of restoration. God wants us to have Peace. Be peace makers be the first to bring peace. Be of a Noble heart and Humble so that we may have Compassion for others which will make us Patient and Tolerant towards one another. Be of a Gentle nature and Simple in your ways. Sometimes Sacrificing for others, can open a door for that person to change remember Jesus sacrificed himself for us, In doing this God will open the doors to Contentment Because all these things is what he is waiting for, Through your relationship with him and his Grace will bring the long awaited Comfort that he promises us God is "Faithful" {Ps37:4}Delight thyself also in the Lord and He shall give you the desires of your heart.

Putting aside our will and allowing Gods will in us will not only restore your relationship with him but at the same time "He Through You" will restore your relationship. That means no matter what we try to put in front of the world and others God still knows us well. Theres nothing we can hide from him. Knowing this we have to come clean with him By admitting to our faults as christians giving way to accepting others faults like God has forgiven us of our debts, so forgiving others debts we start to move to healing.
God knows you better than you know your self
{Ps139 1-3} O Lord you have searched me and known me, you know my sitting down, and my rising up, you understand my thoughts afar off you comprenhend my path and lying down and are acquainted with all my ways.
These are the promises of restoration that God has promised us;
{Jer33:6} Behold I will bring health and cure and I will cure them and will reveal unto them the abundance of peace and truth.
{1Cor10:13}No temptation has seized you except to man and God is faithful, he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.

Healing is the first step to restoration Jesus says I'am all you need If you look upon him he will restore you and all your relationships and your life. Having faith, trusting and believing in him, Look no more towards the past it no longer has significance today and let Jesus be your whole "FOUNDATION AND ANCHOR OF YOUR LIFE"
We must heal from our past disappointments, and resentments along with memories that only paralyze us and destroy our faith lets not give way to the enemy. Who came to destroy us. His mission is to take away everything God gave us you have to make a decision who is stronger in you Satan or Jesus. We don't have to tolerate what the enemy puts in our way but instead reach out your hand to God who is waiting for you to say Father your my strength and my light not only did you save me from death but your also the saviour of my whole life he is waiting.

May God Bless You And Don't Wait Another Moment To Reach Out To Jesus Make Him Your Saviour Of Your Relationships And Your Whole Life.

Walk In Faith, Talk In Faith, Speak In Faith, Act In Faith, Proclaim Faith, Be A Magnet Of Faith And Draw Your Father Everyday Of Your Life Closer And Closer To You
In Prayer. Amen

I want to dedicate this book to the Holy Spirit who Inspired and Guided me.

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